A COMMENTARY FROM THE HEART

TL A COMMENTARY FROM THE HEART (24)1-peter-3-34Remember reading the stories about pirates and buried treasure when you were a kid?  The treasure was always gold coins and expensive jewelry.  The pirates could hardly wait to get their hands on it – not because they wanted to wear it, but because it was something of value they could sell or pawn for cash.

Most women have nice jewelry – because they like to wear it.  Some just feel better when they’re dripping in it, and others – believe it or not, are actually trying to hide behind it.  They don’t feel worthy enough without it.  The more expensive it is, the more they like it.  I have a friend who admits she used to be like that.  She was a bit on the heavy side, and thought if she wore large, gaudy, but real jewels, it would detract people’s attention from her size.

God wants you to know you are fine without the decorations.  He loves the you on the inside and couldn’t care less about all the trimmings.  He isn’t either impressed or intimidated by gold, silver, pearls, diamonds or any other gems you may want to name.  Heaven has streets paved with gold…  that should tell us something.  He uses gold to pave streets like Cornejo uses asphalt.  Ponder that for a while…

The Lord looks on the heart, not the wardrobe, jewelry box, or hair salon results.  Sometimes, the circumstances in life force us to change our priorities about vanity.  I hope you don’t look in the mirror and decide that you’re having a bad hair day, so you won’t leave the house.  My goodness, don’t let that stop you.  Put on your ball cap and GO!  Live as long as you have breath.  God loves you so much and has so much to show you – but much of it is outside your house, not inside.17101674_1899358353641959_272982276_n

If you really want to meet other people where they are, expensive baubles can hinder you from doing that.  Be genuine in your friendship, without pretense, and most people will respond in like.  When people put on airs, that’s when they soon learn that friendship can be difficult to gain.

I’m reminded of my favorite British comedy, “Keeping Up Appearances”.  Hyacinth is what I refer to as “high maintenance” –  but only in the most socially acceptable way, of course.

There are two points to be taken today.  The first is, God loves YOU – not what you adorn yourself with.  And, He doesn’t want you loving your adornments, or depending on them to define you.  He wants you to love HIM above all – and just be your genuine self.  You don’t need make-up, jewelry, a fancy hairstyle or designer clothing to do that.  🙂

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WORLD MENOPAUSE MONTH

tl-october-is-world-menopause-monthI used to sleep at night…  now, I write – and write – and write some more!  I used to eat larger meals…  now, I order off the senior menu at Denny’s.  I usually don’t have a happy plate when I’m finished either.  I drink coffee in excess and less water – but I’m working on getting that changed around.  If it sounds as though I’m complaining, forgive me…  I’m not.  I keep telling myself that I am blessed – a hysterectomy was necessary to get rid of ovarian cancer.  It didn’t spread and I’m alive.  I’m alive to complain about these changes!

gods-got-youAll I ask is that you ignore me when I’m standing at Braum’s with the freezer door open, frantically fanning cold air on myself.  Just act like it’s a perfectly normal thing to do.  Feel free to join me if you’d like.  Let’s have a party – the more the merrier!

Isn’t it fun when you walk into a room and just stand there at the door thinking, “OK, why did I come in here?”  Mentalpause!  That mental pause you need in order to grasp your bearings is enough to make you want to carry one of those voice-activated mini-recorders around with you.  You can say to it, “I’m going to the kitchen to take my morning pills.”  Then when you get to the kitchen, play it back.  Yeah – that’s one option.

How much warning do you get before a hot flash happens?  I don’t get any warning – is that normal?  I can be going about my business one minute and look as though I’ve just swam the English Channel the next because my hair is wet.  It’s embarrassing!  I’ve tried to find a more flattering hair style to deal with these new challenges.  I’ve decided there isn’t one…  so I’ve learned to like hats.  I never really thought of wearing hats back in my 20’s, 30’s or 40’s – but this gal sports a hat most of the time these days.  I have a nice variety of hats – I even have a red hat with a purple ribbon.  That never made sense to me when I was younger.  Now…  ah – it’s all making so much more sense to me!  Red Hat Society…  sign me up!

My moods swing like a pendulum sometimes.  I’m not sure how much of that is lack of sleep, but I’m sure the majority of times it is a direct result of insomnia.  I hesitate to take a PM medicine that promotes sleep since I already take an NSAID most mornings for arthritis pain.

Nope – still not complaining!  Just so ya know…  just assessing the changes since the change.

My mother’s generation referred to it as THE CHANGE OF LIFE.  I remember wondering how much different life could get.  Now I know.  Wish I had my mom around to talk with.  It’s funny, she always told me that when my hair turned gray, it would turn a very pretty gray.  I remember thinking, “Oh that will be a long time from now…”  Well – BOOM – here I am, gray hairs and all.  When a natural blonde turns gray, sometimes it can look a bit mousey and dull.  Mine isn’t mousey and for that I’m thankful.  I’m pretty sure my mom would laugh if she could see me now.  Yeah – we’d giggle together.  ❤

Lately I’ve seen the ads for Crepe Erase – it’s supposed to get rid of the elephant skin – well, I don’t care because this body is never going to pose on a beach in a bikini like Jane Seymour – so…  no sale.  Sorry.  Age and weight loss is an interesting combination.  I’m not sorry I lost the weight though because my overall health is so much better.

My neighbor caught me in the back yard last winter after a heavy snow.  He apparently thought it was odd that I was rolling around in it.  I made a feeble attempt to explain, but it just turned into muttering as I walked away from him toward my back door.

Even though it’s called MENopause, I’ve not been impressed with any man’s understanding of it.

We bought a new vehicle a few years back – one of the best-selling points for me was the dual temperature control – I can set my temperature at 60 degrees in the middle of winter – YES!

There’s an interesting dynamic in our house every winter.  My husband takes blood thinners and gets cold very easily.  So, he cranks the heat up to who knows where and I’m wearing very little because I’m dying of heat stroke.  Is it any wonder I go to the back yard and roll in the snow?

I should charge admission…  it’s apparently quite entertaining.  Huh…  I’ll have to think about that.  🙂

 

 

 

 

COMMENTARY FROM THE HEART

TL A COMMENTARY FROM THE HEART (30)On Memorial Day I looked in the mirror and noticed a lot more gray hairs than ever before.  So many thoughts ran through my mind, including the cost of a professional highlight or color job.  My hair has always had natural highlights and lowlights – the problem is that now those highlights are gray – and they’re starting to wash me out!

I’ve noticed some posts on facebook lately advertising the newest summer hair colors and styles – one of the popular colors is called COFFEE BLONDE.  Hmm…  I thought…  coffee!  It peaked my interest and I started searching the internet.  I found several articles and recipes for natural and chemical-free hair staining.  It’s like a natural henna – and I like the idea of no chemicals damaging my baby fine hair.HAIR STAINIt will probably last until my next shampoo – but the good news is, I’m not going to lose hair like I do when I use the permanent hair color from the box.  There’s no peroxide and no real danger involved.  The amount of instant coffee granules, brewed coffee and conditioner is so inexpensive.  I don’t know about you, but I never use my shampoo and conditioner at the same rate – I have tons of leftover conditioner!  It’s really a win/win.  I can afford to do this just before I wash my hair – not a big deal.

There’s only one side effect (if you can call it that)…  my hair smells like COFFEE.  LOL!!!

It’s just one more frugal thing to try just for fun.  If you want  a dramatic red/burgundy, you can use beet juice.  A cinnamon tea also leaves a bit of brownish/red tint (and the scent would be good too).  Of course for years blondes used mayonnaise or lemon juice in addition to their regular shampoo and conditioner to make their hair shine.

If you are daring and want a more dramatic change, how about sugar-free KOOL-AID???  Yeah – and it’s pretty simple.  The results will show up more on dry hair than on wet hair – and the lighter your hair is, the more dramatic the color will be.  Here’s what you need:

3-6 packages of SUGAR-FREE KOOL-AID (depending on the length of your hair) in a large glass bowl.  Please make sure it’s sugar-free because you do NOT want sticky hair.

Mix with a little conditioner (about 1/4 cup or so) and some hot water.  Stir until you have a paste-like consistency – don’t add too much water or it will be too runny.

I’d wear gloves because it will definitely stain your skin.  If you do get some on your skin, it can be easily removed – no worries.

If you want all of your hair colored, dunk your head in the bowl and massage paste into scalp and on hair.  Or for streaks, put it only where you want it.

Put long pieces of plastic wrap around your head.  Then put a plastic bag over that and secure with a chip clip or tie in a knot on top.

Sleep in it – yeah, I know – just do it.

The next morning, remove the bag and plastic wrap.  Hop in the shower and rinse your hair.  DO NOT SHAMPOO!  If you shampoo, it will wash all the Kool-Aid out.

There are tons of alternatives to harsh chemicals that can potentially BLIND you if it gets in your eyes!  Nothing that harsh should go on anyone’s scalp – or their hair.  Even henna has ingredients that are too harsh in my opinion.

It’s fun to try new colors and it doesn’t take long to go from drab to dazzling!  What will you do today?  Start June with something different.  🙂

HAIRSTYLE APPRECIATION DAY

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Why worry about a bad hair day? Just put a toilet seat cover on your head and carry on!

 

Before I talk about women’s hair, let’s focus on the guy’s styles.

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There are a lot of verses in the Bible about hair, particularly in the Old Testament. There is one in the New Testament that I like.

But not a hair of your head will perish. – Luke 21:18

This is a promise from Christ about enduring persecution. It is meant to bring us great comfort.

Today is HAIRSTYLE APPRECIATION DAY!!!  In Kansas, we need a hairdo that can withstand wind gusts of up to 30 mph on any given day!

My Aunt Mary was a very successful hairstylist in Hollywood during the 1950’s – 1970’s, I got the most trendy and popular hairstyles.  Sometimes the hot new styles in California were not so hot in Kansas.  I got teased about my hair – a lot.

She did what she loved to do, which is the real key to success in any business.

It’s not always easy to get the style you want once you leave the capable hands of your beautician.  I found this photo of a hair dryer from the 1920’s and it made me appreciate my styling tools!

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Hair dryer – 1920’s

When my hair is frizzy, I put on a cute headband and roll with it.  – Carrie Underwood

One thing is for certain, whether you have a feather cut, pixie, bob, wedge or shag, the basic health of your hair is what matters most!

To keep your hair healthy, it is important to follow some simple rules.  My Aunt Mary taught me that what you eat and what you do to protect your hair impact it more than the type of products you apply to it. 

  • Omega 3’s are an essential part of maintaining healthy, shiny hair!  Salmon is one of my favorite sources.  I also take Flax Oil capsules every day.  Other sources are avocados, walnuts and pumpkin seeds.
  • Limit the amount of time you spend in the hot Summer Sun.  I know we are sun worshippers, but if you have to be out for an extended amount of time, at least wear a hat.  
  • Drink water!  Your skin and hair need to be well hydrated.
  • If your hair is color-treated, beware of the chlorine.  One Summer I had color-treated my hair and after swimming, it turned green!  Be careful!
  • I refuse to fry my hair.  I do not put chemicals on it except to color treat (and I leave that to my hairstylist).  I will not use a flatiron or blow dryer!  Those are two tools that can fry your hair and wreck your hair’s integrity permanently.
  • Be careful when choosing your method of root touch-up.  Some are better than others. 
  • Trim the damaged ends of your hair about 1″ every 3 months.
  • Don’t over-brush your hair.  It creates more damage.
  • Don’t color your hair too much.  Avoid bleach completely.
  • Take your multi-vitamin every day.
  • Eat more protein.  Legumes, beans.  Protein shakes.
  • Give your hair a break!  Don’t wash it every day.  Try washing every other day.
  • Use a sodium-free / sulfate-free shampoo.
    Now that my hair is finally “my own”, I’ve decided to let it grow longer.  The ability to wear my hair up is a new adventure for me.  When my hair was shorter, it did not take as long to style, but I just allow more time when getting ready to go out.  
    Even though I wore some trendy tresses in the past, I’m enjoying my longer locks now. ❤


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My favorite teacher was Miss Covel.

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I wanted to wear my hair the same way as Miss Covel – LOL!

Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery. – Charles Caleb Colton

Wink!  😉