RESPECT FOR THE AGED DAY

TL 9-19 RESPECT FOR THE AGED DAYRespect For The Aged Day is a Japanese designated public holiday celebrated annually to honor elderly citizens.  The holiday recognizes the contributions that elderly citizens have made to Japanese society.

I wonder how much America could learn from this tradition?  In this country it seems that our elderly are not honored, but tossed aside or institutionalized where they become someone else’s problem.  It’s so sad because our senior citizens have so much wisdom to offer.  They’d be more than happy to share with us if we’d just ask.

WEAK MEMORY, STRONG HEART

Choosing to love an elderly person, whether they are family or not, is a choice.  We can choose to be impatient and irritable with them, or kind and helpful.  You could think of it this way…  if you live long enough, you’ll eventually be elderly.  How do you want to be treated?  It goes back to the Golden Rule:  Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

 And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.  – Ephesians 4:32

If there’s an elderly person in your life, take some time today to show respect for them.  Here are just a few ideas:

  • A phone call shows that you care.  Let them know you’re thinking of them.
  • Send a card that says you’re concerned about their welfare.
  • Ask questions about how things were back when they were younger.  They’ll be happy to share stories.
  • Show appreciation for any special gifts and talents they have.  Compliment the most recent project.
  • Give a little present to show love and appreciation.  It doesn’t have to cost a bundle, but it’ll do so much good.
  • Plan a special outing if possible.  There’s nothing quite like an occasion to look forward to – and dress up for.  It doesn’t have to be expensive – just a nice lunch at a favorite restaurant would be nice.
  • Offer a ride to an appointment or to the grocery store.
  • Share your precious time with someone who is more than likely lonely and may need some human contact and conversation.i-must-take-time

We all just want to be respected, don’t we?  We would like to have our efforts and our contributions appreciated once in a while.  How much more would we like all that if we were older and possibly all alone?  As we age, we need even more help, but we also need common courtesy from others and wouldn’t it be great to get some respect?

Remember the old Rodney Dangerfield routine… I DON’T GET NO RESPECT – ???  Well, it’s funny as a bit, but it’s really not very funny when you don’t get respect in real life.  :-/

 

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NATIONAL FIBROMYALGIA AWARENESS DAY

TL 5-12 NATIONAL FIBROMYALGIA AWARENESS DAY

GOD LOVES ME WHEN I HURT

The theme for 2015 is YOUR VOICE MATTERS.  MAKE FIBROMYALGIA VISIBLE.

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If only hugs didn’t hurt

The National Fibromyalgia & Chronic Pain Association sponsors activities and increase opportunities to take part.  Events extend throughout the world and through the month of May.

When people say, “But you look so good”, how do you reply?  Although comments like these are meant to be complimentary, they underscore the importance of speaking up about chronic pain illnesses.

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Feeling as fragile as the wings of a butterfly

 

Today, celebrate the victories and simple successes.  What have you overcome?  Do all you can to stay optimistic and positive as you deal with fibromyalgia and chronic pain.

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Remember 

 

Today, remember those lost to the disease and honor people who have fought or are fighting fibromyalgia and chronic pain.  Let a friend know that you care by making a phone call or sending a card.  It means so much to someone facing this daily challenge.

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Unlock as many doors as you possibly can

 

Today, unlock as many doors as you possibly can.  Have you found anything that brings relief?  Share your tips with others who are suffering, that they might try the same thing.  As we find answers along the way, we can also show support for others.

The best secret weapon I’ve found is Organo Gold Gourmet Black Coffee.  This wonderful instant coffee has eased my fibromyalgia symptoms significantly.

http://www.amazon.com/Organo-Gold-Gourmet-Black-Coffee/dp/B003CGJAIM 

Why drink Organo Gold Coffee?  Organo Gold 100% Certified Organic Ganoderma Lucidum provides the following benefits:

  • Increased energy and stamina.
  • Increases brain power.
  • rejuvenates and makes you feel young and alert.
  • Strengthens the organs for elimination of toxins.
  • Uncovers arteries.
  • Fights atherosclerosis and obesity.
  • Improves sexual performance.
  • Helps to treat anxiety and high blood pressure.
  • Helps with hepatitis bronchitis, flu, insomnia, asthma
  • Serves as an anti-inflammatory and anti-bacterial because it increases the activity o the immune system.
  • Strengthens the bones.
  • Destroys cancer cells.
  • Optimizes the use of oxygen in the body and improves sinusitis.
  • Cleanses the kidneys and liver.
  • Overall improvement of health and quality of life.

Organic Ganoderma contains vitamins, minerals, 150 antioxidants and 200 active elements.  No other herbal product comes close to these amounts!  For instance, green tea only has 11, and the best antioxidant food supplement on the market has only 30.

The days of suffering in silence are over.  It’s time to fight back and take action against a disease that has taken too much.  🙂

 

 

FORGET ME NOT DAY

TL 11-10 FORGET-ME-NOT DAY

11-10 THE FORGET-ME-NOT KNOT

Perfect isn’t normal, nor is it interesting.  – Amy Adams

Forget-me-nots are fragile little blue flowers with unassuming faces.  They are far from demanding and could easily be overlooked; however, to those of us who are attracted by the color blue and for whom the color has meaning (diabetics understand the meaning of blue), these little beauties are absolute perfection.

On FORGET-ME-NOT DAY we have an opportunity to let our loved ones, friends and family know how special they are to us.  Now, that doesn’t mean you have to contact Tele-flora to order them a bouquet of forget-me-nots.  You can remember them with something as simple (and inexpensive) as an e-card from any number of places.  I like to send cards from http://www.crosscards.com/ and yes, this site is in my favorites on my computer.  Wink!  😉  I know some of you make homemade cards – and I can’t imagine it would be difficult to make a forget-me-not.  Be creative and shine God’s love on a friend in the process.

God has given us folks who love and support us.  All too soon our loved ones die and our friends may not stay.  Even if you have friends that you’ve lost touch with, what better way to rekindle friendship than with a lovely e-card?  As long as you have an email address, you are set to send!

And what of our loved ones who have passed?  Well, as a general rule I place yellow flowers on my folks’ graves, but I may take a few little blue flowers out today to add an accent to the yellow flowers!  They won’t know, of course – but we don’t know.  God might allow them to see what I’m doing – who knows for sure?

Do you have children?  You know, I think it would be a great deal of fun as a mom or a grandmother to help a child plant some forget-me-not seeds in a pot!  Interact with those precious babies just as much as you can!  The seeds are so inexpensive and the project sounds like a good way to teach youngsters to appreciate flowers!  Isn’t God’s creation miraculous?

Whatever you decide to do today, make sure you share some love and make someone’s day brighter!  ❤