Things are never quite as scary when you have a best friend. – Bill Watterson
If I have to dress in my best clothes, style my hair and put make-up on before you come to my door, we are probably not best friends. If I have to work for a solid week cleaning my house to prepare for your arrival, no, I don’t imagine we are best friends.
The one I can relax with, be my sloppy self with is my best friend. And my best friend feels just as comfortable around me. It’s funny because when we’re tweens we learn how to socialize. We have slumber parties and make cinnamon bread in the oven and sit around chatting all night long. Even at that age we knew who we could be “real” with and who we had to wear the mask around.
“You’re the average of the five people you associate with the most.” A wrestling coach told this to me in high school. I’ve never forgotten it. – Tim Ferriss
It’s sad that a mask has to be worn sometimes, but it does. We all have them and wear them when we don’t feel comfortable around a person or group of people. I was blessed to be a band geek. I got to hang out with the coolest girls in our Junior High School and most of us went on to High School together. Nobody felt like they had to put on a mask. For us it was all about music. We played it, enjoyed it and didn’t think about anything else.
Best friends share common interests. They can chat until the cows come home because that spark of interest is there and they have just as many questions as answers. It’s easier to be yourself before life gets so competitive, but even as we got older we stayed sweet. That’s what best friends do.
I had a very good friend in my eighth grade English teacher. She and I would spend many lunch hours talking about literature, art – and yes, music. She helped me so much with my dyslexia. I knew how to sound words out, but she went a step further and taught me how to strengthen my sight through exercises for my eyes. You can train your eyes to some extent although dyslexia is a sort of trickery of the mind. I don’t mind having it because it has lit the fuse of my imagination every day of my life.
Best friend: someone you can only stay mad at for so long because you have important things to talk about. – Author Unknown
I’ve always made friends with older people. Teachers, other kid’s parents, the librarian, the school bus driver. I’m so much more comfortable conversing with older people. Experts in child psychology will tell you that an only child tends to communicate better with older people because as a child they were subjected to adult conversations. It’s true, I sat with my mom and aunts many a sunny Saturday while my cousins went outdoors to play. Mama dressed me in frilly dresses and I wasn’t about to go out and get it all dirty.
The other day I was counting up all of the girls named LINDA that I was friends with – and the tally is 14. My life has been touched in some way by 14 other LINDAs. Hmm… interesting. I recently got in touch with a LINDA friend from High School via facebook.
Most of my LINDA friends are Christians. You know when Jesus is in the center of any relationship it makes it extra-special. He is my best friend – and yours too. With that knowledge, those masks don’t stay on very long. We’re just sisters in Christ, thankful for His love, mercy and matchless grace in our lives. ❤